Monday, 24 October 2011

SHE DESERVES CARE!! – THE MENTALLY CHALLENGED

THIS ARTICLE IS WRITTEN BY OMAR DIBBA, A RESPONSIBLE CITIZEN WHO SAW THE NEED TO CATER FOR THE MENTALLY ILLED - ESPECIALLY WOMEN; FOR THEIR DIGNITY
Omar Dibba, the Author

Pedestrians, commuters and residence of the Kanifing Municipality are witness to the unspoken plight of a woman; who, on a daily basis walks unconsciously naked on the Tallinding/Churchill town road and no support is provide as at now.
First, she is human and deserves genuine attention and recognition of her right to care and protection (rights are not for the ‘sane’ only). It is quite touching and sad to see this woman lying under the sweltering sun everyday; while people who see themselves as sane and civilize pass her every day without making efforts to change her life and preserve her dignity. She deserves care.

Where is our humanity? Where is the moral justice, the love and care that we profess? What do we tell our children (that we are a people who care more for ourselves and less for others). She would have changed her situation if she could…but she can’t. That is the difference. She deserves care.
Second, she is a woman, who has suffered enough to go through such humiliation in life.

Her leg was broken at one point, and now her dignity is shattered and society is not responding to restore it for her. Who will mend it? I ask Gambia.
She would have certainly put on decent clothing and move around town like all other women…but she cannot at this point in time, because she is disabled. Who will enable her now and safe womanhood? She deserves care.
The difference between us and her would just be a thin line if we fail in our responsibility. If we assume to be sane, we should not fail in utilizing our faculty to help a person who is incapable.

Nothing will change in her life if we neglect. But we may choose to neglect her as if nothing is happening, but this will only indicate our lost of wisdom which would be insanity. She deserves care.
Our children must see us taking care of one and other, even if they appear to be different by virtue of their conditions. I can’t imagine how comfortable Gambians can watch a woman with her nakedness on the street and everyone ignores. Our children will also learn not to care for others because the society they grew up has lost its sense of support and care. God (Allah) will judge us for what we do or fail to do.

I am sure this woman dislikes her current condition, but can she change that condition for better on her own right now? Where are the stakeholders responsible? What are they doing for her and for many like her? From public to private establishments, to the community and the family, and individuals, do not neglect your child, do not throw away a woman, a mother, a sister, a niece and above all a human being. She deserves care.

I wish to call on the Ministry of Women’s affairs, the Women’s Bureau, The Ministry of Health and Social Welfare – department of social welfare, the Ministry of Interior and other departments and offices – Tanka Tanka and NGOs, to come forward and support the woman, give her treatment (medical or spiritual whatever) and let her situation be changed. She and many like her are Gambians who have a right under the law to be cared for. She deserves care.

It will not be human and it can never be accepted for society and stakeholders to allow the streets to watch her nakedness and her bodily dignity and integrity to be lost.

Let our conscience judge.

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